Dave Ramsey Says Dad Must 'Roar Just A Little Bit' After 26-Year-Old Son Warns Parents They'd Be 'Responsible' If His Family Is 'On The Streets'

Casey B. RennerSun, March 1, 2026 at 10:30 PM UTC

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A $1,500 unpaid loan has turned into a standoff over blame, boundaries and family responsibility.

Barbara, part of a blended family in Minneapolis, told "The Ramsey Show" that a decision to loan her 26-year-old stepson $3,000 two years ago is still creating tension at home.

Her stepson, who lives in Wisconsin with his wife and five children under 7 years old, has repaid only half. Barbara said she and her husband have accepted they likely won't recover the remaining balance. The deeper strain now comes from his claims that they "owe" him and from warnings that they would be responsible if his family were "on the streets."

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She told hosts Dave Ramsey and Ken Coleman he does not work, and the accusations have put pressure on her marriage while creating friction among their other adult children.

From Repayment To Resolution

Despite the conflict, Barbara and her husband are financially stable. They are on Baby Step six of Ramsey's financial plan, a step-by-step debt elimination and wealth-building program, and expect to complete it within about a year and a half.

Ramsey told her the issue is no longer about collecting the money but about drawing a clear line. He said her husband has to call their son, forgive the remaining balance and make it clear there would be no more loans in the future.

Wiping out the debt would remove money as a source of tension, Ramsey said. If parents choose to help adult children financially, it's better to give the money outright than structure it as a loan that can strain the relationship, he said.

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Respect, Then Boundaries

Barbara said the most painful part is how her stepson speaks to her husband and asked how they can avoid engaging in what she called "this toxicity."

Ramsey said they cannot tell a grown man what to do, but they can decide how they will be treated. He said her husband should tell his son he is welcome in their home, but only if he maintains "this level of reasonable respect."

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He said they should not expect the conversation to go well once boundaries are put in place. "I want your husband to roar just a little bit," Ramsey said.

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Coleman said the son's behavior may reflect deeper confusion rather than simple laziness.

"There's way more going on," Coleman said. "He's not lazy, even though he presents as lazy. He's lost."

As Barbara and her husband work to stay on track with their financial plan while managing tension at home, outside guidance can offer added clarity. Money Pickle connects individuals with vetted fiduciary financial advisors who are legally required to act in their clients' best interests.

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